爱情经验主义

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HOLLY HELD THE BLUE COTTON sweater to her face and the familiar smell immediately struck her, an overwhelming grief knotting her stomach and pulling at her heart. Pins and needles ran up the back of her neck and a lump in her throat threatened to choke her. Panic took over. Apart from the low hum of the fridge and the occasional moaning of the pipes, the house was quiet. She was alone. Bile rose to her throat and she ran to the bathroom, where she collapsed to her knees before the toilet.

Gerry was gone and he would never be back. That was the reality. She would never again run her fingers through his soft hair, never share a secret joke across the table at a dinner party, never cry to him when she got home from a hard day at work and just needed a hug; she would never share a bed with him again, never be woken up by his fits of sneezes each morning, never laugh with him so much her stomach would ache, never fight with him about whose turn it was to get up and turn the bedroom light off. All that was left was a bundle of memories and an image of his face that became more and more vague each day.


片子开头就是一场争吵。
自己并非对方所认为的那样。“你怎么会以为我是这样的人？！”从爆发到升级再到高潮，最后讲合，再熟悉不过了。Holly的症结是可参照的生活太过具体，因此生活迟迟无法开始——理想的生活。在此后的整个recover过程中都能体现。死去的丈夫将她一点点从破碎的生活里拖出来，向前，继续向前。
他算是改变了她的坏想法，生活一直在眼前、一直在继续。但是下一个爱人在哪里，其实并不一定会有啊。
这样的故事还太过理想主义，脑癌的丈夫行将离世还做了那么多，这太完美体贴了，放在哪个国家都有点不切实际。关于离世的痛楚与艰难丝毫没有提及，那或许是更绝望的一部分。



Lisa Kudrow在片中演率性女子，挑男朋友分五步骤——
i love ur xxx。
r u single?
r u gay?
r u working?
[kiss test]

真是太嗲了。